Friday, January 29, 2010

"There is no such thing as a perfect relationship"

Admit it, no matter how hard you try to make it perfect things can really get rough along the way.


It doesn’t really boil down to compatibility. No matter how compatible two people are they can still end up in an abyss of conflicts and arguments.


There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. There is always a mar, whether a permanent or temporary one, in whatever kind of relationship. If two people always agree on each other, then one of them is useless.


There will always be arguments, misunderstandings, and conflicts that will determine the foundation of a relationship.


These things are the external forces that will either strengthen or destroy a bond.


It is external because it’s beyond our control.


What is internal is how we deal with it when it occurs; dealing with these forces is within our control.


These are not signs if a relationship is right or not but rather, these are filters that separate the real long-term relationship from the fling type.


While there is no such thing as a perfect relationship, there is such a thing as a strong relationship.

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